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 First Timers' Delight: The Best Prostate Massagers for Beginners

The beginning is always hard. That’s true whether you’re climbing Mount Everest or learning to ride a bike. And it’s also true when you’re finding the best prostate massager for beginners. 

There’s the whole taboo about butt stuff (times have changed), and concerns about size and settings. You might be forgiven for thinking that the list goes on and on. But choosing a prostate massager need not be challenging or intimidating.

People need information when choosing any product, and let’s be honest access to the right information becomes even more important when you’re putting something up your bum.

Luckily, you’ve come to the right place to find out what you should consider before you decide on a prostate massager for beginners like you. 

At BerryLemon we are dedicated to providing our customers with information that will help them make the right decisions about which sex toys would suit their unique needs. So, let’s dive in and make sure that you have all the information you need.

The Prostate - The Key to Male Multiple Orgasms

When exploring beginner prostate massagers, it’s important to know a little about how your prostate works. Your prostate is a gland that can deliver some of the most intense orgasms that any man could experience - and it’s only the size of a walnut. 

Using a quality beginner prostate massager will help to deliver those mindblowing orgasms because these sex toys stimulate a gland that is simply packed with nerve ends, both on its surface and deep within the tissue. It is these nerves that respond with waves of pleasure when they are stimulated.

Your prostate can be found just below the bladder and in front of the rectum. It’s an essential part of your reproductive system and plays a role in both sexual function and urine control. It produces a fluid that combines with sperm to produce semen. It also is packed with muscle that helps to power ejaculation.

It is the density of nerves in the prostate that has earned this gland the title of the ‘P-Spot’, the male equivalent of the female G-Spot. Massaging the prostate (also known as ‘milking’ the prostate) can allow men to orgasm repeatedly, without ejaculating. That opens up the possibility of multiple orgasms. 

Now that you know what you are dealing with, and the potential rewards of prostate play, we can move on to what to consider when buying your first p-spot toy. 

Choosing The Right Massager Size for Beginners 

Size matters. Yes, the motion of the ocean (and we’ll explore that later) is important, but choosing the best prostate massager for beginner use means finding a sex toy that is comfortable to insert and use. The experience of using your prostate massager either solo or with a significant other should be relaxing - and that might be problematic if you immediately dive into the deep end as far as size is concerned. 

Start low and slow.

Start with a more petite prostate massager if you are not a regular user of anal toys. BerryLemon’s beginner prostate massager Wes has been designed to accommodate both newcomers to prostate play and old hands.

Wes is a very manageable 3 inches long and 1 inch wide.

However, even the most petite of prostate massagers should still provide functionality that makes the search for that ultimate prostate orgasm an absolute pleasure.

Here is a helpful comparison chart to compare the insertable length of our prostate toys WakeNeoand Wes:


Considering Butt Plugs for Beginners 

Butt plugs can be perfect for a beginner to backdoor fun, both due to the size, tapered design and simplicity.

But simple does not mean that these types of prostate massagers cannot deliver incredibly intense orgasms. Leo from BerryLemon is a case in point. It provides wonderful stimulation and is perfect for those who want to start slow, but still enjoy the benefits of prostate stimulation. 


Leo is great for beginners because of its silicone flared design, it’s very easy to insert and offers delicious internal and external prostate stimulation.

It’s worth noting that if you have used a butt plug in the past then there are models of prostate massagers that will seem very familiar. However, massagers made specifically for prostate stimulation will offer more intense prostate stimulation than a butt plug. 

The Motion of the Ocean

As a first-time buyer of prostate massagers for beginners, you should pay attention to the variations in stimulation that are offered by the various models of prostate massagers on the market. They say that variety is the spice of life - and that is especially true when it comes to your first prostate massager.

There are some sensations that are supplied by a prostate massager that will allow you to experience powerful prostate orgasms every time - but your preferences will vary from those of others, so make sure that your chosen massager can deliver.  

The type of stimulation that you will receive from your prostate massager will usually be courtesy of the inbuilt motor(s) or in some cases vibrating/rotating internal beads.

The best prostate massagers will deliver incredibly intense sensations, but each one is different in terms of what they deliver. 

For instance, the BerryLemon Wake boasts 10 remote-controlled pulse patterns delivered via two motors and a curved shaft. The base of the prostate massager offers 360 degree rotating beads. It's among our larger prostate massager but beginners to prostate play purchase Wake everyday.

The BerryLemon Neo, with its unique pulsating “prostate pulse point” also delivers an exceptionally sensual experience courtesy of state-of-the-art pulsing motors. This toy offers a fluttering on the p-spot that feels incredible. 

Sensuous Curves Ahead

In order to really enjoy prostate play, the prostate massager you purchase must be specifically designed for the male anatomy. A great design makes reaching the prostate and supplying those ‘good vibrations’ far easier and more comfortable.

There are prostate massagers that are simply repurposed vibrators that were initially designed for the ladies - but these often do not reach the prostate or supply the stimulation that provides prostate orgasms. They were not designed to pinpoint prostate stimulation.

Make sure that you are purchasing a sex toy that has been designed to hit the p-spot.

Base Basics 

The base of the prostate massager you choose may have been designed to stimulate your perineum (your taint). This can increase the intensity the prostate massager provides as it is simulating the prostate both internally and externally. 

The base of the prostate massager is important for another reason.

It is designed to hold the prostate massager in place to ensure that it reaches those ultra-sensitive nerves in (and on) the prostate. However,  finding a comfortable position can involve a bit of experimentation.

The base of each of our prostate toys are designed to keep the product in place, while gentling stimulating the perineum.

Wake boasts a base bonus with its 360° rotating base which adds additional rimming stimulation. 


The Rechargeable Gift That Keeps Giving

This may be far down the list of the attributes you want from a prostate massager, but how your massager is powered can make a huge difference to your experience. There’s nothing worse than reaching for a sex toy and realizing that the batteries have run out. 

This is one of the reasons that luxury prostate massagers can be recharged via a USB connection. If you want to ensure that your prostate play isn’t interrupted by flat batteries ditch the old-school power source and opt for a more modern massager - they’re the perfect example of rechargeable plug-and-play pleasure.


Last Words On Finding The Best Prostate Massagers For Beginners 

If you want to narrow down your choices when it comes to prostate massagers for beginners, then take the BerryLemon Prostate Quiz below. After a few short questions we will narrow down the best massager recommendation for a beginner. 




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