I purchased this for my wife. She is a 72 year old woman, who like a lot of women her age struggles with dryness/ pain with intercourse. She is a very petite woman 5’2” tall 114 lbs. She used it for the first time the other evening. I was running an errand and received a text from her “ OMG”. I was completely taken off guard, and called her right away thinking something was wrong. Silly me forgot ( not thinking) about the item she received a few days ago. Well anyway, once I got home she proceeded to tell me that she appreciated my thoughtfulness in purchasing this item. This is a long winded way of saying, if you older men/ women have any doubts about this item; rest easy and purchase it.