The G-spot seems to hog the limelight. (With good reason.) When stimulated, the female G-spot can provide a deep internal orgasm. But there is good news for the fellas, delivered courtesy of the P-spot.
The P-spot (short for ‘prostate spot) is the key to incredibly powerful internal male orgasms.
During male sexual arousal, the prostate swells, and many men find that direct or indirect pressure on the prostate (the P-spot) during sex results in powerful and intense orgasms. This is due to the enormous number of nerve clusters found on and in the prostate.
Not only are the orgasms provided by the P-spot potentially life-changing, but stimulation of the prostate can result in multiple, non-penile internal orgasms. (Yeah, no refractory period!)
This sounds incredible, right?
But to turn theory into reality, you must first learn how to find the P-spot.
Finding The P-Spot
Knowing the location of the P-spot is essential to achieving a P-spot orgasm.
The prostate and its numerous nerve endings are around 2 inches inside the rectum.
If you’re curious, in search of pleasure, and have a moment to spare insert a clean, lubricated finger into your anus, with the finger bent and pointing toward your belly button. If you’re successful, you will feel a fleshy bulb or bulge of tissue on the front wall of your rectal lining. Cue the confetti and fanfare.
Why Does P-Spot Stimulation Feel So Good?
If a gland has around 10,000 nerve endings, it will be incredibly sensitive.
It’s always a challenge to describe physical sensations - and everyone is different, but those who have experienced prostate orgasms tend to speak about the experience in glowing terms, for example:
“[It’s} way more intense. Penile orgasms are quicker, [but] they don’t feel anywhere near as good.” - Fred
“[Like an] ocean wave on the beach, undulating between crashing up the shore and receding down to the sea, only to come back once more.” - Drew
“My body got so warm and my heart raced like crazy. I felt like I was coming from the inside out and that a volcano was erupting.” - Dominus
“It's like the difference between seeing a movie in standard definition and then discovering IMAX.” - Daniel
Your experience may differ, but the consensus seems to be that ignoring the sheer pleasure and uniqueness of a P-Spot orgasm is a decision you will regret.
Stimulating the P-Spot
There are two ways that you can stimulate the prostate, internally and externally. For those who are uncomfortable with the idea of penetrative anal activity, the appeal of external stimulation is obvious. So, let's start there.
External P-Spot Stimulation - The Basics
External P-spot stimulation can be achieved by using one or more fingers to massage the perineum gently. Additionally, some men discover that applying pressure to the anal area (without penetration), such as external pushing will provide waves of pleasure and even orgasm as the male G-spot is stimulated in this way.
There’s another option, and this is performing prostate massage by gently rubbing the belly, between the pubic bone and the belly button.
Internal P-Spot Stimulation - Toy Basics
Using your fingers to self-stimulate a P-spot orgasm is accessible, but it can be a little tricky and a bit tiring. Using your fingers is a great place to start, but the most effective way to explore your P-spot is via a prostate toy. Being that your P-spot is behind you and requires extended periods of stimulation, it's best to go with efficiency.
One of the most effective ways to enjoy the otherworldly pleasure of P-spot orgasms is to invest in one or more sex toys that have been designed to get the job done efficiently and pleasurably.
Here's What You Should Know About P-Spot Toys
Prostate massage devices come in a variety of shapes and sizes, but when you’re making your choice make sure the sex toy you are considering ticks all the right boxes.
🍑 Safe Size: Your butt is pretty accommodating, but it has its limits. So, start small (pay attention to length AND girth) and work your way up to a more ambitious toy. This is especially true if you are new to butt stuff and want to explore anal training as a way to enhance the experience.
🍑 Safe Base: A gently tapered business end is important when it comes to prostate massager design, but effective and safe P-spot stimulation REQUIRES a toy with a flared base.
Hey, listen. In the U.S. nearly 4,000 people are admitted to the emergency room each year because they’ve got stuff stuck up their butts. It’s an elite club, and you don’t want to be a member.
🍑 Vibration and Speed: Some of the most advanced butt plugs and prostate massagers have multiple speeds and motors to stimulate the prostate from the inside and out. Many include a motor to directly stimulate the perineum.
The addition of vibration and the ability to select the intensity of stimulation can add to the attraction and sheer pleasure of P-Spot play.
🍑 Material: Materials such as latex and rubber are porous, meaning that bacteria and other microorganisms are more than happy to set up house on their surface - and they can be a nightmare to keep clean. Your insertable toy should be made using medical-grade silicone. This material is hygienic, easy to care for, durable and safe.
🍑 PRO TIP: Always use a quality, water-based lube when you’re exploring butt stuff. Lube is essential unless you particularly enjoy tears and damage to some of the most delicate membranes in your body.
Best for Beginner Butt Stuff
Making the right choice from the get-go is going to make you into either an anal convert or turn you off the experience forever, so make sure that you choose wisely.
Wes - Roller Pleasures
The Wes Roller Prostate Massager is perfect for those new to the experience of anal and vibrating P-Spot stimulation.
Wes is only 3 inches long and 1 inch wide so it’s not intimidating for the newbie. Wes boasts a 10-speed vibration function - and a rolling pleasure point that mimics the gentle ‘come hither’ finger motion that is so effective when it comes to P-spot massage.
Leo - The Backdoor Hero
Hands-free anal pleasure and a sex toy that is perfect for both men and women - what more could anyone ask for? Leo sits securely in your bum, and it’s got a handy remote that allows access to 10 orgasmic massage modes, powered by two motors. One on the shaft and one in the rotating base - for perineal massage.
The 4.5-inch Leo is the key to unlocking a world of pleasure. Leo is versatile and USB rechargeable, so no pesky cords to deal with. It’s ready to go whenever you are.
Remember, literally different strokes for different strokes. If you’d like to explore other P-spot stimulation options, then visit the Anal Toy Collection, there’s a toy with your name on it.
How to Find the P-Spot - The Path to Pleasure
Dogs chase cars (stay with me), but what are they going to do when they finally catch one?
Once you’ve mastered finding the P-spot you still have to make use of that knowledge. Explore solo or with a friend - and get a bit inventive. Invest in some quality prostate toys and some quality lube. Then explore your many erogenous zones, and take things slow.
Before you know it, they’ll be peeling your still-vibrating body off the ceiling.