How To Use Sex Toys: The Ultimate How-To Toy Guide

March 22, 2024By Christine Kent

There are many different ways to get to Orgasm land. And the best part is there are plenty of different sex toys that can help get you there😉 If you're new to the world of sex toys, this article is just for you. Today, we’ll fill you in on different toys and how to use sex toys.

Are you ready? Let's get sex toy-educated.

How to Use Sex Toys

When you’re exploring how to use sex toys, you’ve got to narrow down which sex toy you’re interested in. Read on to explore many different popular sex toys and how to use them.

We will start with the classics and work our way up from there. Let's get started!

The Dildo

Let's start with this classic sex toy. Dildos are insertable sex toys that are created for penetrative play. They can be used for oral play, vaginal and anal sex. They can also be used for solo adventures or partnered play.

Dildos come in different shapes, sizes, and designs. The dildo you choose all comes down to your personal preference.

There are many different types of dildos, for example:

Hand-held dildos
Double dildos
Strap-on dildos
Strapless strap on
Thrusting dildos
Anal friendly dildos
Realistic dildos etc.
Non-realistic dildos
Vibrating dildos
Glass dildos
Suction cup dildos, etc.

How to Use This Sex Toy

Learning how to use a dildo is pretty straightforward. Firstly, you will need to apply some lube. Once you apply some lube, you can insert the dildo vaginally or anally.

Indie - Personal Massager

The Best Dildos to Use

If you're looking for internal vibrating stimulation along with broader clitoral stimulation, Indie will be your go-to vibe.

If you want to explore temperature play, the Heart of Glass Wand - Glass Dildo will be a great option. Trust us, it's a total heartthrob.

Lastly, if you're looking for two-way pleasure that you can enjoy hands-free, Sage - The Strapless Strap On will be a great choice.

The Bullet Vibrator

Bullet vibrators are usually used for clitoral stimulation. Still, they can also be used on your erogenous zones, like your inner thighs or nipples. They are called bullet vibrators because they are small in size and normally resemble a bullet. They provide a very precise stimulation.

How To Use This Sex Toy

After turning your bullet vibe on, search for your favorite vibration setting and use it on the part of your body where you're looking for stimulation. You can also play around with the vibration settings occasionally so that your body does not get used to just one setting and keep things new and exciting.

The Best Bullet Vibrator to Use

Suppose you're looking for precise clitoral stimulation or slim vaginal penetration. In that case, Happy the Bullet Vibrator will be the perfect vibe for you.

The Wand Vibrator

Wand vibrators are the perfect sex toy for those who are looking for powerful rumbling sensations.

How to Use This Sex Toy

There are many different ways you can use a wand massager. You can either use it against the vulva, clitoris, the perineum, along the shaft or the bulb of the penis, or even the nipples.

The wand massager can also be used during partnered sex while in suitable positions like spooning or doggy style. It also makes the perfect massager if you want to relieve some muscle stress.

The Best Wand Massager to Use

Bewitch'd will be the perfect wand massager to get. It will offer you mind-blowing vibrations that are impossible to get tired of. It doesn’t hold back and is sure to please.

The Clitoral Suction Toy

If you have been scrolling around on social media, we're sure you have come across clitoral suction toys. The clitoral suction toys are created with an opening that surrounds your clitoris, and this is where all the magic happens. The sensations that you experience mimic the feeling of sucking like you would experience during oral sex.

This toy is also fantastic to use during partnered sex.

How to Use This Sex Toy

Place the opening of the clitoral suction toy around your clitoris and let it form a seal before turning it on. Start off on the lowest vibrating setting and work your way up. Even though this toy is created for the clitoris, you can also use it on other areas of your body, like your nipples.

Read More: How To Use A Clit Sucker Correctly

The Best Clitoral Suction Toy to Use

Rosie, the rose toy, is a great clitoral suction toy to use. She is cute, and she's powerful and provides you with satisfying suction modes that will promise you deep clitoral orgasms.

Aura and Kai are also great clitoral suction toy options for you to try out or add to your collection.

The Rabbit Vibrator

The rabbit vibrator is designed to stimulate your clitoris and G-spot at the same time. Because this toy stimulates two areas at the same time, it is perfect for achieving a blended orgasm.

How To Use This Sex Toy

You will insert the main shaft of the rabbit vibrator inside the vagina while positioning the smaller arm against the clitoris. Start off slow by using only one arm at a time, and once you're comfortable, you can add the other arm.

The Best Rabbit Vibrator to Use

Fleur the rabbit vibrator is a dual stimulator and is all about maximizing your pleasure. Whether you're looking for a teasing session or the whole shebang, Fleur is sure to please.

If you're looking for something extra, you just might love a thrusting rabbit.

The Cock Ring

Cock rings are sex toys that are worn around the base of the penis. They restrict blood flow, which helps to maintain your erection and can delay or intensify your orgasm. They come in different sizes and are especially great for penetrative sex, as the wearer and partner can receive pleasure from it.

How To Use This Sex Toy

You need to stretch the cock ring over the base of the penis and, if you can, over the testicles as well. You want to make sure that the cock ring is tight enough to hold in the blood flow but not too tight so that it cuts off your circulation or that it's uncomfortable.

The Best Cock Ring to Use

The ORO: Vibrating Cock Ring With Remote is the best cock ring to use. This cock ring helps to improve stamina and increase pleasure, creating an unforgettable experience. It's not just a simple accessory; it can open the doors to a brand-new world of pleasure. And the fact that it comes with a remote control just makes for endless fun for solo adventures or partnered play.

The Male Masturbator

Male masturbators, also known as strokers or sleeves, are sex toys that intensify the feeling of stroking the penis. It mimics the feeling of a hand job. They can have a single opening or an opening on both ends.

Some male masturbators are automatic and offer suction that mimics the feeling of a blow job.

How to Use This Sex Toy

First, you need to add lube to your member and on the male masturbator. By applying lube, you will avoid discomfort and friction. Next, insert the penis into the male masturbator and move your hand up and down the male masturbator. If it's an automatic masturbation, simply turn on the motor and enjoy.

The Best Male Masturbator to Use

The Air Helix2 - Manual Male Stroker is the best male masturbator and uses the power of air to give you an exciting and natural pleasure experience without any annoying batteries or restrictive harnesses. It's seriously amazing!

The product has been designed with a cool and sleek transparent casing, and guess what? It also features six air holes that are strategically placed to make it super easy for you to adjust the suction strength with just a simple fingertip cover. How cool is that?

The Prostate Massager

The prostate massagers are usually designed with a curve so that they can stimulate your prostate. Some prostate massagers feature vibration settings, while others even have an external arm that stimulates the taint simultaneously. The most elite prostate massagers also boast a remote control.

How to Use the Prostate Massager

Add some lube to the prostate massager and insert it into the anus. Make sure when you insert it to angle the curved part of your massager towards your prostate.

The Best Prostate Massager To Use

Wake - Remote Prostate Massager is the best prostate massager to use because it is remote-controlled and carefully created to target the desired area and remain securely in position. With this prostate massager, you can experience next-level prostate orgasms.

The Butt Plug

A butt plug is designed to remain inside your body during sexy times and creates a feeling of fullness. Some butt plugs vibrate, while others are used for decorative purposes.

How to Use This Sex Toy

Firstly you will need to add some lube to the butt plug as your anus does not self-lubricate like a vagina does. After you have lubed it up real good, insert it into your anus slowly.

The Best Butt Plug to Use

Leo - The Vibrating Butt Plug is a remote-controlled butt plug and is designed for easy use and pleasure. The sex toy boasts of a flawlessly tapered structure, equipped with two robust motors - one situated in the taper and the other at the rotating base. There's nothing Leo cannot do.

Final Thoughts on How to Use Sex Toys

There are many different sex toys out there to explore. When choosing the best sex toy, it all comes down to personal preference. But trust us, there's a sex toy out there for everyone. We hope our guide on the different sex toys and how to use sex toys has helped and has answered the questions you might have had.

Learning how to use different sex toys can be intimidating at first, but with practice, you will become a natural. The first couple of tries using sex toys might not be the greatest, but by adding some lube, getting to know the functions of the toy, and easing your way into things, we can promise you there will be fireworks in no time.

No matter what sex toy you choose, it's important to just have fun, relax, and do what feels good to your body because your pleasure is a priority.