Sex Positions With A Vibrator: Enhancing Intimacy + Pleasure

Variety is the spice of life. Perhaps that explains why books on sex positions have remained bestsellers for thousands of years. The most famous of these works of literature is, without doubt, the Kamasutra, which outlines 64 sex positions.  But even though this evergreen literary work is enjoyed by millions, boredom can set in. But exploring the Kamasutra’s sex positions with a vibrator, on the other hand, will keep things fresh and exciting in the bedroom. 

Exploring any sex positions with a vibrator will keep the bedroom fires burning, no matter which positions you and your partner choose to explore. But, not all sex positions are equally rewarding when it comes to vibrator use. Here are some that will deliver all the feels - and orgasms galore.

Sex Positions With a Vibrator - Why?

Vibrators not only provide an incredible variety of sensations but they have also been designed to help women achieve orgasm when penetrative sex alone doesn’t push all the right buttons. Modern vibrators make it possible to set your own pace and enjoy a huge variety of sensations - and yes, many have been designed to hit the right spot, in this case, the clit.

However, men need not feel left out when it comes to the joys of exploring sex positions with a vibrator. Not only will they be actively involved in using a vibrator on a partner, but many vibrating sex toys can enhance the strength and pleasure of the male orgasm.

Banish boredom from the bedroom by exploring some of the sex positions that reward those who are interested in enhancing their sex play with a vibrator. No matter what style of vibrator you prefer, there will be a sex toy that vibrates, pulses, or sucks - and makes every position a new adventure. 

Our Favorite Couples Vibe, No Matter The Position

In our humble opinion, our favorite vibrator to use during partnered sex is  Bewitch’d. It's powerful, versatile and a hell of a ride. You can't go wrong with this vibrator. It can be used in almost any position and can be used directly or in a teasing arousing way during foreplay. 

However, some folks might want to explore smaller bullet vibes, suction vibes, or penetration vibes -- all of which are so much fun to use during partnered sex. It really depends on what you're into.

Read on to learn exactly how to use a vibe during sex and explore sex positions with a vibrator.

A Step-by-Step Guide to Pleasure

Before we head towards a more in-depth exploration of sex positions with a vibrator it’s always good to know how to get the most out of the vibrator that you are bringing to the party. Fortunately, using sex toys is a breeze, and they are fabulous for exploring the many sex positions that simply beg for the addition of a vibrator. 

When you have selected which vibrator would best match your individual needs (everyone is different), then you’ll be ready for the main event. A simple step-by-step approach to getting the most out of your chosen vibrator can set you on the path to enjoying (or providing) some world-shaking orgasms. 

1. Apply some water-based lube to the bullet either by hand or directly (this applies to every sex toy that you use). 
2. Start off with the bullet vibrator set to its lowest intensity, delicately maneuvering it around the vulva.
3. Gently explore the sensitive parts of your partner's body that are adjacent to the vagina. Focus on the inner thighs and more slowly towards the labia. Spend some time exploring this nerve-dense part of the female body before moving on.
4. Gently trace a circular motion around the clitoris, gradually moving in towards the ‘Love Button’ as you or your partner become increasingly aroused.
5. Switch back and forth between the labia and the clitoris to explore the outer limits of arousal - and smooth the road to explosive orgasms.
6. Keep experimenting by gradually increasing the intensity or finding a pattern and speed that brings you to the brink of ecstasy - and then tips you over. 

Pro Tip: Experiment with direct contact on the clitoris, but keep in mind that everyone is different, while some may relish this sensation, others may find their (or that of their partner’s) clitoris too sensitive. 

And so to our main event - which are the sex positions that will reward spicing things up with a vibrator? 

5 Of The Best Sex Positions With a Vibrator

These sex positions have been selected because they don’t require gymnast-like flexibility and are therefore suitable for all ages and all preferences. Exploration is the best way to find the sex position that is perfect for you and your partner and remember - variety is the spice of life. 

#1 Missionary

Missionary may imply two people - but lying on your back is also fabulous when you’re in the mood for some solo stimulation. It’s simplicity itself. Lie on your back and get buzzing. 

This position offers the perfect opportunity to stimulate your clit, and go deeper as you approach orgasm. 

Missionary is also perfect for couples' play. It places almost no strain on the muscles and allows you to relax (that’s important) while you’re partner takes control of the stimulation.

Best Vibrator for Missionary:

If you are in search of versatility you need not look any further than Bewitch’d, which sets the standard as the best wand massager on the market. 

This wand massager is the ultimate orgasm tool, no matter which position you try. It’s incredibly powerful, and cordless, making it the ideal sex toy for those who want to explore an enormous variety of sensations. 

Variety comes standard with Bewitch’d, it boasts 3 speeds, as well as 10 modes and patterns. 

But it’s the bendable design that makes such a spellbinding vibrator. It’s perfect for exploring not only Missionary, but also a variety of other positions as it allows users to get comfortable with or without a partner, and reach all the right spots.

Getting the Most from Wand Massagers Like Bewitch’d

Magic wand style vibrators were originally marketed by Hitachi in the late 1960s as a ‘massage device’ to treat aching muscles (at least according to Hitachi marketing, we’re not convinced it wasn’t a sex toy from the get-go). But this legendary vibrator can do far more than soothe tired muscles - if you know how to use it. 

1. Opting for power! The deep, rumbly vibrations provided by a wand vibrator are perfect for stimulating the internal structure of the clitoris. Missionary is simply perfect for reaching the clit. This position is also extremely relaxing, the partner on the receiving end can lie back and relax. 
2. Start slow. Work your way from the upper inner thighs toward the vulva. Spend some time working towards the clit. Remember, with great power, comes great responsibility. 
3. Vary the Sensations. Every woman is different when it comes to what sort of stimulation is most pleasurable. Apply gentle pressure and don’t immediately lunge for the clit. Spend some time working your way inward and experiment with different pressures and patterns of stimulation. 
4. Communicate. Communication is essential for anything sex centric, and it can make a huge difference to your enjoyment of a vibrator. Listen to your partner about what feels good (and what doesn’t), and let them know what you’re feeling. Talking is also one of the most wonderful ways to supercharge intimacy. 
5. Lubricate. You’re going to be reading this a lot, but the importance of a world-class, water-based lubricant cannot be overstated. Using a vibrator with lube elevates the entire experience - and it can be essential for women who suffer from vaginal dryness, those who are going through menopause, or are post-menopausal.

‘It’s the wand vibrator, finally modernized. Cordless wands are not normally this powerful. But BerryLemon has worked some magic.’ - Jamie, 34

#2 Doggy Treat Style

Lets’ take traditional Doggy Style and add a vibrator to the mix. That gives us an orgasmic ‘Doggy Treat.’ This is basic doggy style with added thrills. In the classic doggy style position, have the penetrating partner reach around and pleasure the receiving partner with a vibrator, or let the receiving partner take matters into their own hands.

Your No. 1 Choice - The Best Vibrator for the Doggy Treat:

It’s worth repeating that Bewitch’d, really should be right on the top of your bucket list when it comes to exploring various sex positions with a vibrator. However, other types and models of vibrators can be easier to handle given the fairly hefty dimensions of wand massagers like Bewitch’d.  These more petite vibrators can bring something exquisitely and orgasmically new to your exploration of both classic and new positions. 

Another Great Vibe Option - Small Edition 

Although Bewitch’d is a choice that has had many women quivering in ecstasy, you might want something that will fit neatly into the bedside drawer. If you are in the market for a more discrete option but still want incredible features, then Happy - The Bullet Vibrator may be what you’re looking for. 

This appropriately named classic, petite ‘flutter-tip’ vibrator will turn you into a master of clitoral stimulation. With 10 vibration speeds and patterns of stimulation, this is a petite powerhouse of a vibrator. 

Getting the Most from Happy

The quest for happiness is never-ending - but Happy can certainly make that search a lot more fun. This classic bullet-style vibrator is a firm favorite with millions of women, but you can always make a classic even better. 

1. When you first receive Happy, or any other bullet vibrator run it gently across you arm and experiment with the settings before you head below the belt. This will give you a great idea of the intensity of the options you have available to bring your partner to the edge of ecstasy, and then give them a gentle push off the orgasm cliff.
2. When testing Happy, you’ll notice that it moves more slowly across your skin due to the friction caused by the soft and sensual silicon material. Apply lube early and often. As mentioned above, a water-based lube is always a good idea.
3. Men need not feel left out. The Happy bullet vibrator can provide shovers of ecstasy when applied to the underside of the penis shaft. Gently applying a vibrator to the frenulum and head of the penis can bring on exquisite sensations. 

"It's everything you'd want from a bullet vibe and more. It's sleek, modern and feels ahhhmazing. Great for clit and nipple stimulation & even nice for shallow penetration. Happy certainly lives up to the name." - Cassie, 36

#3 The Sexytime Seat

Take your seat for a journey to Destination: Orgasm. Grab a very sturdy chair and have the penetrating partner take a seat. As they enter the receiving partner from the seated position, either partner can use a vibrator to pleasure the partner on top. Of course, the position can be tailored to individual preferences, and the partner on top can face away or towards the seated party - there’s nothing wrong with a bit of variety.

Your No. 1 Choice - The Best Primary Vibrator for The Sexytime Seat:

The Sexytime Seat is another position that is tailor-made for Bewitch’d. The fact that it is cordless makes using it hassle-free, and the many settings make finding your unique groove a pleasure. 

A Suction Fun Option:

Kai - The Compact Clit Sucker: You’ll have power, choice, and air pulse technology in the palm of your hand with the discrete 7-speed Kai. Enjoy gentle air pressure or something a little more intense, but whatever your choice, style or speed, you’ll be transported to paradise. If you enjoy oral sex, you’ll fall in love with Kai.

Getting the Most from Kai

1. The seated partner will find being guided to the right spot (the clit) very useful, seeing as they are unsighted. This process can be one of the most erotic that you will ever experience.
2. Once again, listening to the receiving partner is absolutely essential. Kai’s many speeds and various intensities can make it one of the most orgasmic vibrators ever invented - however, listen to what your partner wants, it’s the key to explosive sex.
3. Build up to the main event. Start with a gentle suction and adjust as the going gets hotter and heavier.
4. Lube, lube, lube. The waves of pleasure that a clit sucker can provide rely on an airtight seal around the edges of the clit. You need a quality water-based lube to get the most from the experience.

What users say:

It's my secret weapon!! I sort of became obsessed with this toy. I've never reached climax so fast in my life. I'm coming multiple times a night. *prayer hands* - Taylor

#4 The Seductive Spoon

This position is so seductive and pleasurable you’ll fall in love with it. 

The mechanics are fairly simple. Have the Big Spoon lift the Little Spoon’s leg in the air while Little Spoon uses the vibrator to pleasure themselves. Or take it to the next level by having the Little Spoon hold their legs open while Big Spoon comes in from behind with a vibrator. Switch between these options for waves of mind-blowing sexual pleasure. 

Your No. 1 Choice - The Best Primary Vibrator for The Seductive Spoon:

The Seductive Spoon is perfect for the Bewitch’d wand massager. Doing away with cords gives you enormous freedom, especially when lying down with a partner. This powerful wand vibrator can be used while your partner penetrates from behind in this cuddly seductive spoon position.

Double the Pleasure Option:

Fleur - The Orgasmic Rabbit Vibrator - Who hasn’t heard of Rabbit-style vibrators? They’re famous because they are incredibly efficient orgasm machines. Fleur takes Rabbit performance and reinvents it to provide shudderingly intense orgasms. 

This vibrator offers intense dual stimulation via g-spot and clitoral stimulation, as well as an incredible 10 massage modes. That means pleasure at your own pace. 

Getting the Most from Fleur

When it comes to vibrators Rabbit models are just the bee's knees. Women across the globe make Rabbit-style vibrators a part of their sex lives since they offer clitoral stimulation and the opportunity to enjoy penetration. However, it’s that G-Spot action that makes Fleur ideal for Sexytime Spooning. It reaches all the right places and can take you from zero to OMG at a pace that suits you - and your partner.

Here are some hints and tips that will help you and your sexually significant other to new heights of pleasure.

1. Think outside the box. A Rabbit vibrator can also be used to stimulate a male partner's penis and testicles (nipples are also a very viable option). 
2. Get intimate with your vibrator. Not that way (that comes later), test out the various vibration options and power settings on that ever-available arm. Find one that you like and introduce the experience to your partner. This is one of those occasions when talking can help both parties find their sexual sweet spot.
3. You know this is coming - don’t ignore the lube, please.
4. A Rabbit vibrator is incredibly versatile. Don’t ignore the potential of this type of vibrator when it comes to anal orgasms (for men and women). 

#5 The Strap-On Squat

The Strap-On Squat is a great option for F/F action or one in which the partner with a penis wants to be penetrated. 

Grab a world-class strap-on dildo and take your lover from behind. The receiving partner squats down and is penetrated by the strap-on wearer. For the ladies, the purchase of a second, hand-held vibrator can add even more pleasure. BerryLemon’s Happy (mentioned above) is perfect since it’s incredibly versatile and easy to handle.

The Best Vibrator for The Strap-On Squat:

Want a strap-on without the buckles and bother? Then Sage - The ‘Strapless Strap-On’ will get your blood flowing in the best way possible. No straps means ease of use and no delays, allowing you to get right into the action. Sage is perfect for vibrating penetrative lesbian play. 

This ‘strapless strap-on’ is a rechargeable, double-sided (the wearer inserts one end into the vagina), dual-motored, invitation to ecstasy. It’s designed to enhance the experience of both partners and features 10 intense massage modes delivered by dual motors, one at each end. 

Sage has a 3-inch long bulb and a curved shaft, designed to reach the right places (including the all-important G-Spot) without continuous adjustment. The tilted bulb ensures that this toy stays in place during strapless penetration, and reaches all the right places, no matter what sex position you are trying out. 

Getting the Most from Sage

1. Practice makes perfect. Before leaping into couples play, try out your double-sided strap-on for some solo action. It’ll allow you to get used to the sensation of the weight of the penetrating end - and that can help you when you do share the experience.
2. Break out the popcorn. This is one of those occasions that watching porn may help enhance your strapless strap-on experience (opt for amateur productions). You might just pick up some tips that will enhance your technique.
3. Don’t be afraid to use your hands to help guide and adjust your strap-on. 
4. Speed and rhythm.  Once you achieve penetration experiment with the depth and speed of thrusts. Find the rhythm, and switch up the speed as you and your partner approach ‘The Big O.’ 

Summary: Sex Positions with a Vibrator - Bring it On!

Adding a vibrator (or another toy from the BerryLemon Collection) to the mix elevates sex to new levels, no matter which position you and your partner choose. 

Make sure that you choose a vibrator that is right for you and your partner. But, using a vibrator isn’t only for couples (obviously). A vibrator can also take masturbation to entirely new levels too.

Don’t let the sexual flames die down in the bedroom. Take matters into your own hands and bring a vibrator onboard, that'll get those flames roaring even higher.

So, invest in pleasure. And when you purchase your new Bedside Buddy, don’t forget to make a quality water-based lube a part of your vibrator-enhanced sexual experiences - it’ll make everything go that much more smoothly.