Multiple orgasms might seem like a myth, but darling, they are real! If you love reaching the big O, experimenting with toys, and changing things up in the bedroom, you might be interested in learning how to have multiple orgasms. By doing this you can learn more about your body and what you find exciting and pleasurable.
Today, we explain what multiple orgasms mean and how you can have multiple orgasms with a vibrator. Are you ready? Let's get started!
What are Multiple Orgasms?
According to Dr Claire Morrison from MedExpress, "Multiple orgasms occur when a woman or someone with a vagina has more than one orgasm during the same session of love-making." But, Annabelle Knight, Lovehoney's sex expert, describes multiple orgasms as "One really long 'super orgasm,' or two or three in a row."
So, multiple orgasms can happen one after another or be spaced out over some time.
7 Tips on How to Have Multiple Orgasms
Various factors add to having multiple orgasms. One of these factors is arousal. The more excited and aroused you are, the bigger the chance of experiencing multiple orgasms. This is because when you are aroused, blood flows to your genitals, making the sensitive parts of your body even more sensitive.
Your mood also has a lot to do with it too. When you are tired or stressed, it may be more difficult to become aroused and reach multiple orgasms.
Let's have a look, step-by-step, at how to have multiple orgasms.
#1 Find Value in the Moments Before the Milestone
If you're going to focus solely on achieving multiple orgasms, you are going to stress yourself out and not reach the end goal. So, don't put too much pressure on yourself. Relax and enjoy yourself in the moment.
#2 Go Slow and Build That Tension
Build up the sexual tension before you start to get touchy-feely. You can do this by lighting candles, watching a steamy romcom, or even ‘talking dirty” to get things going. When you're already turned on before the touching begins, the chances are better for you to have multiple orgasms.
#3 Do Some Teasing
To begin with, avoid penetration and let your body respond to touching and arousal. After your body responds, move along to teasing genital stimulation. Holding back some direct stimulation gives you some time to build up arousal. It is more powerful for vagina owners to have their first orgasm by directly stimulating the clitoris. You can do this by using a clit vibrator, performing oral sex, or using your or your partner's fingers.
#4 Keep Going After Your First O
After having your first O, you can take a break or continue stimulating your body's sensitive parts. Sex does not have to happen right after you reach your first orgasm.
#5 Do Kegel Exercises
Dr Annabelle says, "By doing kegel exercises every day, you'll create a more powerful sensation during arousal, a tighter vaginal canal, and bigger, better, longer orgasms for all." You can also use a kegel exerciser that will help make your orgasms last longer. Pair kegels with deep belly breaths – you can thank us later.
#6 Switch Things Up
If you know that stimulating your clit gets you to orgasm land the quickest, switch it up. Play around with penetration and with your G-spot, or stimulate your anus or nipples. Once you reach orgasm this way, you can either take a break or go in straight to stimulating the area that you know makes you orgasm in no time.
This technique will help you achieve multiple orgasms more easily.
#7 Communication is Key
Communication is important when you want to have multiple orgasms with a partner. You need to direct your partner and let them know what feels good. If you want to have multiple orgasms with a partner, it's always a good idea to climax before penetration. That sets the scene for the second orgasm.
There are Different Types of Multiple Orgasms
Clitoral
Multiple clitoral orgasms can be achieved when direct movement and pressure are applied to the clit. Clitoral orgasm is possible through masturbation or through sex positions that allow clitoral stimulation, like doggy or cowgirl.
G-Spot
According to Dr. Morrison. "G-spot orgasms are more likely to be multiple if you exploit the existing level of arousal soon after the first orgasm." So stimulate your G-spot by raising your pelvis. You can use a pillow, or you can lift your hips.
A-Spot
This spot is high up and at the back of your vagina. What makes the A-spot great is that it does not have a refractory period, meaning you don't have to take a break and can keep stimulating it. Deep penetration and anal are the best ways to reach multiple orgasms with this spot.
How To Have Multiple Orgasms With a Vibrator
So you're now all clued up on how to achieve an orgasm but want to know how you can achieve multiple orgasms with a vibrator.
Step 1: Find the stimulation that works for you and get yourself to orgasm in a short amount of time.
Step 2: Once you get the hang of getting to orgasm-land quickly, continue stimulation after you have reached an orgasm. The clitoris might be too sensitive to touch after your first orgasm, so stimulate around the area until the sensitive period has passed.
Step 3: Now, when you feel ready for stimulation again, you can choose between direct and indirect stimulation of the clit with your vibrator. The second orgasm might be more intense but may take a little more time to arrive. So take your time to get there, and don't stop till you reach your next orgasm.
Step 4: You can continue with stimulation or stop and continue next time. What's important is training your body to move past the refractory period and to stay aroused.
The vibrator is the most brilliant little tool for multiple orgasms! The stimulation is just so intense, shortening the period between orgasms, which helps to blend these climaxes together.
The Best Vibrators for Multiple Orgasms
When learning how to have multiple orgasms, finding the perfect vibrator is very important. They are the holy grail when it comes to multiple Os.
In our opinion, air pulse toys are the very best for multiple orgasms.
Aura is part clit sucker and part vibrating dildo – perfect for achieving multiple orgasms. Its air pulsations embrace the clitoris, which is both thrilling and delightful. It has a flexible body, which you can use for dual stimulation or to tease yourself or your partner. It has 7 pulse patterns that you can try externally and internally.
This is a very powerful clit stimulator, beloved by many. Aura makes it easy to have multiple orgasms or blended orgasms with its amazing flexible, and versatile design.
Bewitch'd is a vibrating wand massager designed for maximum satisfaction. Its 10 modes and patterns make it great for achieving multiple orgasms. You can start by stimulating your body's sensitive areas, then move on to stimulating the genitals. After that, you can switch things up and incorporate penetrative sex. Wand vibrators like Bewitch’d are famous for packing a punch and powerfully stimulating the clitoris.
Powerful vibrators like Aura and Bewitch’d are something the body just can’t resist. As long as you use a vibe like this, you’re going to climax as many times as you want.
Think of Multiple Orgasms as Waves
Achieving multiple orgasms is sort of like riding waves. The first orgasm builds, you hit the crest of the wave, and come back down. But when you want multiple O’s, just build that wave right back up again. Building up the tension, arousal and stimulation makes each wave even bigger, the peak even higher.
Ladies don't often experience a physiological refractory period like men do, this means we can have as many orgasms as we want. So, long as you build and ride that arousal wave, the orgasm will come.
Final Thoughts on How to Have Multiple Orgasms With a Vibrator
Learning how to have multiple orgasms can be tricky at first, but when you get to know your body and what feels good, you can easily achieve more than one orgasm, without a problem.
The following are important tips to remember:
- Stay SUPER aroused, tease to the edge, orgasm, and then continue stimulation after that first orgasm.
- The orgasm might continue, or you may start on an upward trajectory again. It will be different for everyone.
Vibrators like Aura or Bewitch'd will also make achieving multiple orgasms easier and far more intense. Take things slow and focus on the moment, not the end goal. It's all about having fun and experimenting with what feels good to your body.
