So, you want to learn how to use a vibrating wand? Let’s enter the world of wand massagers and bring-you-to-your-knees orgasms. 

You’ll be hard-pressed to find a more popular vibrator. Wand massagers are a worldwide mainstay in sexual wellness spaces and have been for more than five decades. 

If you want to learn how to use a vibrating wand for some of the most mind-blowing and blissful orgasms you've come to the right corner of the internet. 

Let’s dive into everything you should know about wand massagers and how to use a vibrating wand for the first time. 

Massage wands are the strongest vibrators money can buy

Massage wands are known for being powerful and reliable. 

Some vibrators offer a buzzy surface-level stimulation while wand massagers rumble. Wands deeply stimulate your nerves and muscles. This is why they offer some of the most powerful clitoral orgasms money can buy. 

It’s no wonder wand massagers are legendary. 

Wands are the classic vibrator, est. 1968 sex revolution 

The Hitachi Magic Wand was originally marketed as a body massager. But ladies quickly caught on to the magical possibilities. 

This unsuspecting massager kicked off an entire sex toy industry and sparked a flower-powered sex revolution.

Wand vibrators have lasted the test of time and modern technology has only enhanced the magic. 

How to use a vibrating wand for maximum pleasure: 7 tips and tricks

There’s no single way to use a wand massager. In fact, the possibilities are endless. But some top tips could help set you off in the right direction. 

1 Charge & clean

This is a prep-step, step zero. Before using your wand for the first time make sure it’s fully charged and clean. To clean your wand use lukewarm water and gentle soap. 

Note: Some wand massagers are not waterproof so be careful when using water. 

One awesome benefit of a rechargeable, waterproof and wireless vibrating wand is: it’s easy as heck to use and clean. Some plug-in magic wand vibrators have been known to rust after use which is not ideal.

2 Relax & arouse 

Think of this step as the prep step for your pleasure. Ease into your pleasure time. Light candles, put on music, breathe deeply, and read your favorite erotica –get in the mood. 

The more aroused you are the better clitoral stimulation will feel. The more relaxed you are, the easier pleasure will come.  

3 Play the field 

Vibrating wands are not just for clit stimulation (although, this is where they truly shine). These versatile vibrators can be used to increase arousal and sensitivity when used on erogenous zones. 

When you first begin using your vibrating wand don’t go straight for the clitoris. Build up your arousal and stimulate everywhere but. Work from the outside in. Building up tension, blood flow, and sensitivity. 

Here are a few areas you can use your wand massager:

  • Clitoris
  • Vulva
  • Inner thighs
  • Breasts
  • Nipples
  • Neck
  • Stomach
  • Penis 
  • Testicles
  • Shoulder
  • Hands

4 Add lubricant 

After you’ve played the field a bit, and relaxed into the process —go for gold and begin stimulating the vulva. 

But before you do you may consider applying a lubricant. 

Adding a little “slip and slide” to the area reduces friction and enhances stimulation. Wand vibrators are powerful, and you want zero friction when you’re using them for direct stimulation. 

5 Start on low settings & low stimulation settings

For those who are new to how to use a vibrating wand, it’s a good rule of thumb to start on the lowest setting. Get a feel for that before moving on to the next strength or pattern.

Our vibrating wand, Bewitch’d, offers 3 intensities and 10 patterns. So you can customize your wand experience. 


Some patterns over constant stimulation –bzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. While other patterns offer stimulation relief and could be extremely arousing –BZZZ zzz ZZZ zzz ZZZZZ zzz. That teasing wave-like pattern is *chef kiss* for starting out.   


6 Play with indirect and direct stimulation 

Remember, you don't need to directly stimulate the clitoris the entire time. In fact, if you giveth and taketh away vibration, you can create a seriously powerful orgasm. 

Use the vibrating wand directly on the clitoris and when you feel your pleasure beginning to mount (but not yet climaxing) move the wand a little left/right of center. This placement is what is called indirect stimulation.

The nerves are still being stimulated, but you’re allowing for the wave of your orgasm to rise and fall. Each time you build up your pleasure wave, it’s a bit more intense. The more you can do this the bigger your finale will be. 

7 Now, explore the many modes

The previous tips will keep you busy for some time. But when you’re ready for more, explore the various strength modes and patterns. 

Switch things up at the final stretch of your vibe session– try turning up the intensity or changing to a new, more intense pattern. 

Pretty soon though, you’ll find the routine you like most.

If initially, the vibration is too intense, try this–

If you’re new to vibrators (or are sensitive) a wand massager could prove to be a wild ride. If you want to lower the intensity or last a little longer try using the barrier method. 

Use a vibrating wand over top clothes like underwear, pajamas, or even sheets. This diffuses the vibrations a bit and offers a slightly more teasing vibe.

 

You’ll absolutely love vibrating wands if:

  • You’re way into clit stimulation
  • You want deeper orgasms 
  • You’re looking for a powerful vibrator 
  • You want to spice up your partnered sex 

Meet our best-selling vibrating wand: Bewitch’d vibrating wand massager

It’s the only vibrator you’ll ever need. It’s our strongest vibrator yet--guaranteed to put a smile on your face. 

Bewitch’d is a powerful, cordless vibrating wand massager designed for your orgasmic bliss. With 10 modes & patterns, you’ll never get tired of its charm.

If you want the crème de la crème of clitoral vibrators, look no further than bewitch’d. It’s certainly spellbinding. 


 

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