All orgasms are the same, right? Well, not quite. For most people, all types of orgasms feel incredible, and not one stands out above the other, but there are some significant differences between the different types of orgasms that vulva owners can experience. This is because each orgasm can come from a different type of stimulation.
Most people know about 2 types of orgasms vulva owners can experience, namely vaginal and clitoral. But did you know there are about 24 different types of orgasms? That's right! And when you combine any of these orgasms, it's then when you get a blended orgasm.
Today, we dive into what you need to know about blended orgasms and the tips you can follow to achieve this orgasmic bliss.
What is a Blended Orgasm?
A blended orgasm is the experience of having two or more orgasms at once. This is where orgasms meet the next level.
And there are 24 different types of orgasms!? Yup, that's pretty crazy, right? There are vaginal, cervical, clitoral, A-spot, G-spot, anal, U-spot, nipple, hands-free, breath orgasm, and sleep orgasms, just to name a few.
When you combine and blend any of these orgasms, it is then when you achieve a blended orgasm.
Solving the Equation to Achieve a Blended Orgasm
Achieving a blended orgasm is like solving a math equation. Okay, it's not that scary, so don't worry. You're not going to find the X's and ask Y, but to solve the equation, you need to locate your clitoris and find your G-spot.
Locating The Clitoris
So, your clitoris can be compared to an iceberg. The tip that we can see and touch is the tip of the iceberg, and the wishbone-shaped inner structure (aka the crura) that extends internally for about 4 inches or so is the underwater portion of the iceberg.
When you're aroused, your entire clitoral structure becomes swollen. This makes certain areas very sensitive to stimulation.
Finding Your G-spot
It is said that locating the G-spot can be challenging because it is not an official area but more like a cluster of nerves. When you're stimulating the G-spot, you're, in fact, stimulating a network of nerves that connect your vagina, clitoris, and urethra. But hey, spotting your G-spot is not impossible; all you have to do is become very aroused, and your G-spot is sure to make its appearance.
Let's look at some tips that will help you find your G-spot.
Tips That Will Help You Locate Your G-spot
- Get aroused - Get comfortable and do what feels good to you and your body. Whether this is using your fingers or with the help of a toy, get your body excited and warmed up.
- Lube it up - This will help you have a comfortable and no-friction stimulation session.
- Insert your fingers or G-spot vibrator - Insert your fingers or G-spot vibrator about 2 inches into your vagina.
- Position your fingers or toy - Move your fingers or G-spot vibrator toward your belly. This is the area where you may spot the G-spot.
- Stimulate the area - Use a "come here motion" with your fingers to stimulate this area. You can also move your fingers in a circular motion or try to apply gentle pressure.
- Explore - If you have found the area, it's time to explore.
Now that you know how to locate your clitoris and G-spot, it's time to find out how to achieve a blended orgasm on your own and with a partner. Read on for the juicy details.
How to Achieve a Blended Orgasm on Your Own
Here are a few pointers for achieving a blended orgasm by yourself. The trick is stimulating two or more areas at once – you pick your own adventure.
Remember the G-spot is Easier To Find When Aroused
Once you feel comfortable, you can stimulate your clitoris and get your body warmed up and aroused. When you're aroused, blood will flow to your pelvic area, which will make the area sensitive, and it will make it easier to find your G-spot.
Now, when you're aroused, you can insert a G-spot toy or one or two fingers to access your G-spot.
Now, you might be wondering “How do I know when I have reached my G-spot?” Oh, girl, you will know! Sensations will start to run throughout your body. Once you have tuned in your G-spot, you can simultaneously stimulate your clitoris.
Use Your Fingers or Sex Toys To Stimulate Two Areas
You can use your hands or a sex toy to stimulate your clitoris and your G-spot at the same time to achieve a blended orgasm. If you decide to use a toy, you can use one that only stimulates clitorally or internally, or you can use one that does both. We will have a look at the best toys for blended orgasms later in this article.
Note: It might take a while to get into the rhythm, but girl, once you get the hang of things, it will be all deep breathing, sheet pulling, and fireworks from there on. And if you don't get it right on your first go, practice will make perfect babes.
How to Achieve a Blended Orgasm With Your Partner
Let's have a look at how you can master blended orgasms with your bae.
Position is Everything
The position makes or breaks it, babe. So, if you and your partner are new to blended orgasms, start by laying on your back. Now, let your partner penetrate you while they or you stimulate your clitoris.
Add Those Pillows
Okay, so we know what you're thinking, “How am I supposed to find space to stimulate when my partner is on top of me?” The answer is pillows, hun! Add one or two pillows under your pelvis while your partner keeps their torso in more of an upright position. You're welcome!😉
Rhythm and Movement
If you and your bae are struggling to find the rhythm of stimulating the clitoris and G-spot at the same time, focus on one area at a time. You can let your partner provide the internal stimulation, then pause and let you stimulate your clitoris. You can repeat this until you find a flow that works for you both and until you can stimulate both spots simultaneously.
Note: Can't get there the first time with your partner? No stress, babe! This means you can practice more and get more creative with positions, fingers, mouth, and toys. Remember, the first pancake is always a blob, but it still tastes good😉
Read More: The Blended Orgasm: How To Achieve The Double Blended "O"
The Best Sex Toy To Help Achieve Blended Orgasms
Aura is perfect for dual stimulation. It can stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. It can also be angled to stimulate the G-spot. You can discover your favorite modes with Aura and hit all the right spots if you know what we mean.😉 Aura is the perfect toy to achieve a blended orgasm with.
Suppose dual stimulation with toys is too intense for you. In that case, you can use a vibrating toy internally to stimulate your vaginal canal and G-spot and use your fingers to stimulate your clitoris. This will also help to get you to blended orgasm land.
Another option to achieve blended orgasms is by indirectly stimulating or teasing your clit. This way, you build up to your orgasm, which will be much more intense.
Blended Orgasms For Prostate Owners
Yup, you read that right! Blended orgasms are not just for vulva owners but for prostate owners, too! The prostate is known as the male G-spot. Prostate owners can achieve blended orgasms by stimulating the balls, the taint, the P-spot (prostate), and the penis at the same time.
This type of penile + anal blended orgasm can be achieved through stimulation with the help of fingers, butt plugs, or prostate massagers.
Final Thoughts on Blended Orgasms
Orgasms are magical! But they're even more magical when they are blended orgasms. Blended orgasms are when you combine any of the 24 different types of orgasms. Blended orgasms are like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Individually, they are amazing, but together, it's a mouthwatering.
We hope our tips, tricks, and toys help you achieve this orgasmic bliss, whether it's on your own or with a partner. Aura is the perfect toy for blended orgasms and is a bedroom powerhouse.
Please remember that if you don't achieve a blended orgasm on your first try, that is perfectly okay! Practise makes perfect, and in this case, practicing is a lot of fun, so enjoy!😉
