How To Use A Magic Wand Vibrator: The Ultimate Guide

January 18, 2024By Steve Mallach

1968 was a year that saw the birth of legends, including the launch of Hitachi’s Magic Wand. Although it was marketed as a ‘household appliance’ intended to ease muscle pain (nudge, nudge, wink, wink), the Magic Wand soon became one of the world’s most beloved sex toys and an emblem of the Swinging 60s. Magic Wands continue to be among the most popular vibrators on the market due to their power and versatility. Learning how to use a magic wand vibrator can be the key to unlocking the true potential of this iconic sex toy.

The Evolution of Magic Wands - From Muscle Massager to Bedside Essential

Today, Magic Wands and other massage wands, are widely available - and openly marketed as sex toys, thanks to the overturning of the Comstock Act of 1873. This Act made it illegal to sell, gift or mail an ‘obscene item,’ hence Hitachi’s coy marketing strategy. The company came clean in 1992 and admitted that their product was in fact, a sex toy.

So, the Magic Wand became a bedside table staple - but how has a product designed in the late 60s stood the test of time, especially in the face of such intense competition from other types of sex toys?

The answer is technological evolution.

Today’s wand vibrators are as powerful as the original, but modern versions allow you to choose from an enormous number of intensities and vibration options.

The original was a little scary in the amount of sheer power available, but the 21st-century versions of the Magic Wand are much more versatile - and offer incredible amounts of control that help translate that raw power into a sensual and orgasmic experience.

The original was HEAVY and plugged into the wall. But, these days you can enjoy wands that are feather-light, cordless, and rechargeable. You gotta love sex tech!

Wand Massagers Are Among The Most Powerful Vibrators, Ever

A run-of-the-mill vibrator tends to purr like a kitten, but wand massagers provide a deep rumbling that would have your average sex toy running for the hills.

Wand massagers rule the roost when it comes to power, there are simply no other sex toys that come close. That power, combined with pinpoint control over the strength of stimulation makes wands the most incredible tool when it comes to clitoral stimulation, and providing orgasms that could be classed as life-changing.

Hitachi, for all their coyness about the intended use of their fabulous invention, really hit the nail on the head when it came to naming this OG device — nowadays wands of all kinds really are magical.

Step By Step: How To Use A Magic Wand Vibrator

If you’re here to learn exactly how to use a magic wand vibrator, here are the cliff notes to help you get there. (We go in depth below, but here is what you should know out of the gate.)

Charge It Up: Ensure your wand vibrator is fully charged to avoid any mid-session interruptions.
Find a Comfortable Spot: Choose a comfortable and private space where you can relax and explore without distractions.
Start Slow: Begin with the lowest setting to get accustomed to the wand’s vibrations and gradually increase as desired.
Explore Different Angles: Experiment with various angles and positions to find what feels best for you.
Use Lubrication: Apply a water-based lubricant for a smoother experience and enhanced sensations.
Focus on Sensitive Areas: Gently press the wand against sensitive areas, like the clitoris or other erogenous zones, for targeted stimulation.
Combine with Foreplay: Use the wand as part of your foreplay routine to heighten arousal before intercourse.
Clean After Use: Always clean your magic wand vibrator after use according to the manufacturer’s instructions for hygiene and longevity.
Store Properly: Store your wand in a dry, safe place away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures.

In-Depth Tips For How to Use a Magic Wand Vibrator Like A Pro

For those who want a bit more information, keep reading to learn some top tips on how to use a magic wand vibrator to maximize your pleasure.

#0 Prep Work- Cleaning & Charging Your Wand

Keeping any sex toy clean is important, and your Magic Wand vibrator is no different. The good news is that high-quality wand massager sex toys are easy to clean, all you need is some warm water and a gentle, antibacterial soap.

Keep your vibes charged up! Many modern bewitching wands are cordless and rechargeable, which is a welcome development. The original models needed a wall socket. This is good news for users, disentangling cords in the heat of the moment is a bit of a passion killer. But having a vibrator that runs out of juice when yours gets flowing is even worse. Make sure that your rechargeable, wireless, and waterproof wand is ready to go when you are.

#1 Set The Scene - Creating the Perfect Ambiance For Arousal

Stress and anxiety might be keeping you from experiencing the maximum pleasure in the bedroom. Stress is one of the leading causes of performance anxiety, and lack of desire. This applies to both men and women, but research suggests that women who are dealing with high levels of stress have lower levels of genital arousal. That’s bad news for both parties involved in the foreplay action.

Before you reach for your trusty wand vibrator take some time to set the scene so that relaxation and arousal are guaranteed. Light some great aromatic candles, cue your sexytime playlist, and take a few deep breaths. Talk, connect, and unwind. Before you know it, the worries of the world will fade away, and you’ll both be ready for some fun between the sheets.

#2 Explore Versatile Pleasure: Using Your Wand on Different Body Parts

When you’re mastering how to use a Magic Wand vibrator, keep in mind that Hitachi started out developing the world’s best muscle massager. Modern-day versions of the Magic Wand are undoubtedly more advanced than the original models, but that’s even more reason to use them to provide incredible massages.

Remember that you can use a wand massager all over the body! Don’t lunge straight for the clitoris. Be inventive in your use of your new favorite sex toy. Get the juices flowing by paying attention to:

The small of the back
The upper neck and shoulders
The inner thighs
Breasts and nipples

Make sure that you select the right massage intensity for this activity. Most erogenous zones are extremely sensitive (obviously) and also have very delicate skin. This is one of those times where a combination of gentle touches and more forceful pressure can pay enormous dividends.

#3 Add A Bit Of Lube To The Vulva

There is no sexual activity that will not be improved by a great lube. A world-class lubricant is like chocolate, it’ll always make things better. Before reaching for your wand apply a dab of your water-based, natural lube and you’ll be ready for action.

#4 Explore Intensities & Patterns

When it comes to powerful wand vibrators less is sometimes more, at least to start. Start with the lowest setting and work your way towards ‘strap yourself in’ territory. While you’re cycling through the intensity settings take the opportunity to experiment with various patterns of vibration.

Versatility is the name of the game when it comes to wand vibrators. It’s the ‘Choose Your Own Adventure’ of sex toys. BerryLemon’s powerful, cordless wand vibrator, Bewitch’d, allows you to explore 3 intensities and 10(!) patterns. So you set the pace and the intensity of stimulation - all at the press of a button. There are more settings than you really could ever need, but it just guarantees there is something for everyone.

#5 Build-Up Arousal - Techniques for Clitoral Stimulation

Now, we go for gold. Use the wand around and on the clit for fireworks.

New research has revealed that there are approximately 10,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, making it incredibly sensitive.

For a wonderful crescendo of pleasure, opt for indirect stimulation to begin with.

Then tease your way closer, and closer to sustained direct stimulation.

Spend some time using your Bewitch’d Wand to gently massage and stimulate the vulva (the external parts of the vagina). Stroke the areas surrounding the clit, slide your vibrator up and down the clitoral hood (a fold of skin that protects the clitoris), or use a circular motion to trace the outlines of the clit. If you’re using it with a partner, they’ll give you the right signals, you can also use your wand to gently tap on the clitoral hood, bringing waves of pleasure.

Whether you are going solo with your wand, or you’re with a partner, the key is letting the waves of pleasure build, with each one becoming more intense as you work your way toward orgasm.

Using A Wand With A Partner

Incorporating a wand vibrator into your couple time? It's a game-changer. Think of it as a fun experiment where you both get to explore what feels really, really good. You'll chat about what you like, try new things, and really tune into each other's pleasure.

The experience of using a wand together is not just about the physical sensations; it's a dance of trust, vulnerability, and mutual pleasure.

So, Is a Powerful Wand Vibrator Right for You?

Navigating the vast world of sex toys can be overwhelming, but not all toys are made the same. Enter Bewitch’d, an exceedingly powerful cordless wand vibrator, a standout choice for a multitude of reasons.

It's ideal for:

Anyone who appreciates the fine art of clitoral stimulation.
Those looking for a sex toy that's versatile and adaptable to various moods and needs.
Individuals seeking a comprehensive experience, from teasing foreplay to a climactic finish.
Anyone craving a masturbation experience that's nothing short of earth-shaking.
Couples eager to add an exciting new dimension to their intimate moments.
Those who love exploring different erogenous zones for a deeply satisfying encounter.
Enthusiasts seeking the ultimate in power and intensity from their vibrator.

Remember, when it comes to sex toys, personal experience is the ultimate guide. A beautifully crafted wand vibrator can revolutionize your perspective on pleasure. Why not take a leap and explore a new realm of enjoyment?"

Summary: How To Use A Magic Wand

Wrapping up, mastering using a wand vibrator is all about starting slow and tuning in to what feels good.

Whether you're flying solo or teaming up with your partner, the key is to ease into the experience, gradually exploring the wand's diverse settings and sensations.

Communication plays a huge role, especially with a partner, as it turns the journey into a shared adventure of discovery and pleasure.

A splash of lubrication can enhance the experience, making every touch smoother and more enjoyable.

Remember, a vibrating wand isn't just a sex toy, but a tool for personal exploration and intimate connection. Embrace it as a gateway to new realms of pleasure and deepen your understanding of what brings you or your partner joy.